I am truly sorry for the loss and pain that you are feeling. We've all had to endure the sorrow of losing a loved one in death. What helped me the most was prayer and faith in God's promises like found here at 1 Corinthians 15: 26 and it tells us: "And the last enemy, death, is to be brought to nothing." The Bible tells us at Hebrews 2: 14 "so that through his (Jesus') death, he (Jesus) might bring to nothing the one having the means to cause death, that is, the Devil." So we are promised by our heavenly Father, Jehovah, and his beloved son Jesus that they will not only do away with death, but they will do away with the one that causes death, the Devil. Just remember there is nothing that the Devil can do that Jehovah our heavenly Father can't undo. For more comforting scriptures please visit: http://bit.ly/1K38EFt. Again, the family is in my prayers and I offer my heartfelt condolences. Feel free to contact me if you wish at my email address; myranj@centurytel.net